Public Speaking, Debating and Presenting
The question posed is concerning my experience is about nature or nurture. When we see an effective speaker who is a great communicator, the first reaction is of admiration and a lurking envy. The fear of facing an audience and speaking on the stage has been my problem since school days. Despite, being from a convent school with a good command over the English language, I have never volunteered to speak on a stage and if at all I was made to act on stage in school plays, a peripheral role with a few monosyllabic dialogues was the best I managed and even there I remember my play director noticing how I stiffened my shoulders while speaking. This could not go on forever and I had to overcome this flaw as I progressed in life. While I never formally took training in public speaking, I had aspirations of leadership and once despite stage fright I stood for an election in school against a articulate speaker. On the occasion I spoke like a boy speaking by heart in an elocution competiti...