Nindakache Ghar asave Shejari
A Mumbaikar Parsi Orthopedic surgeon rarely professes to speak or understand fluent Marathi, but the title of my blog is not easily translatable. The literal translation is that your critic should be living in a house in your neighborhood. This phrase is attributed to the ancient Sant Tukaram held in high esteem. This was said many years ago and the context of this is not really known. The obvious meaning is to not be an egotistical person and be ready to not only accept but welcome criticism. Also to seek such persons and make them one’s neighbours. I have a feeling that contrary to this meaning this statement maybe a warning not to be surrounded by negative persons who are critical about everything you do. Very often in language meaning of a phrase is lost. As a saint from the lower strata of society probably in his time he became a critic of the Hindu caste system. But as a result of power asymmetry it is often found that one does not have the courage to say the truth and...